Fixing things...

Sometimes I ramble on and on... to clear out the grey matter and keep the thoughts moving. I am the quintessential drama queen as well... and I like to hear myself talk. I do not need things fixed for me... many times I only need to hear the words to know how to proceed.

If I need help, I will ask. I don't need anyone to fix things for me, or take on responsibility for me and my emotions or my dramas. I do quite well by myself, thanks. I'm a big enough girl to just run my mouth... talk my way through a problem and then move the hell on...

And if not...then I'll scream for help.

If I'm not screaming... don't think you need to fix it for me. Because although I love you, it's not your job to fix me. Although I appreciate you and your efforts, you'll exhaust yourself trying to fix me. I'm too big a job to fix. Trust me on this one.

Just love me for all my failings and ignore a lot of my ramblings... pat me on the head... nod knowingly... and we'll move forward together. Does that work for you?